Rain tried to help John Belushi, who was a friend of hers, get off drugs. She was diagnosed with systemic lupus at the age of 28, though she suffered from it all through her 20s. Her first pregnancy exacerbated her condition so severely, she could not hold her child for two years, due to the loss of use of both of her arms. At the age of 34, she married Academy Award for Best Actor winner Richard Dreyfuss in 1983. They divorced in 1995. The two have three children together: Emily (born in 1983), Benjamin (born in 1986) and Harry (born in 1990). In an interview in 2009, Rain said that she was once picked up hitch-hiking by serial killers Tex Watson and Charles Manson, stayed in their van after her friends were dropped off, and that the killers later showed up at her aunt’s house.